WHAT I DESIRE IN A WOMAN

WHAT I DESIRES IN A WOMAN

I could still remember vividly that faithful Saturday evening in my uncles house in Lagos. I spent three months there. Efe, my neighbour and friend, ran into my room screaming, “ A man just dropped me off. He said he liked my dressing and that I am beautiful. But, the truth is that I was very uncomfortable that I started shivering and stuttering when he asked me questions. I was not confident at all and I bet he noticed it,” she spluttered. Efe is from Delta State. She is beautiful, cooks very well and over-dresses but lacked self-confidence. Her physical appearance alone easily attracts men to her. But when she gets into a relationship, after two months, it comes to an end. It became a big bother to her. Sometimes she weeps. In fact, she concluded that she was being haunted from her village. It was that bad.
But the question was, why do these men run away in such a short time ? Well, different stroke for different folks they say.
Every woman wants to be the kind of woman that men talk about, admire and chase. We all want to be appreciated, respected and admired for our existence, appearance, personality and accomplishments.

But, women forget that there are different things men look out for in a woman they intend to settle down with. For this reason, it is not easy to figure out what men really desire. But as the saying goes, one mans meat is another mans poison. Regardless of this, there are standard things that every man looks for in a woman.
So what do men really desire in women ?

Be yourself
You should not pretend to be who you are not or who people want you to be. Men do not like women who are not real, it is a big turn off.
Have self-confidence.
A woman with self-confidence easily attracts a man to herself. A woman who feels so good about herself is a woman most likely with a good head on her shoulders, rational, focused and has good direction in life.

Every man would want to boast about his woman among his friends. A man has no fears when he knows that his woman is self-confident because she can represent him anywhere in his absence.

Proper dress sense
How much your outfit costs does not mean anything to a man. What matters to him is that you are properly and well dressed. A man will treat you with love and respect because you treat yourself as such when you dress well. You need to be in tune with the latest fashion and know what your man likes you wearing. This will not only draw men to you, but you will also feel good about yourself. It is good to dress sexy, but moderate and classy as well and always leave something to the imagination.

Intellectual capacity
Being desirable to a man is more than just having a pretty face or attractive figure. Most men want to be with an intelligent woman they can have meaningful discussion or talk with on any issue, who will advise them well, give them new ideas- a woman who they will learn from and who they can also teach. Be a total package and physically good looking with intellectual capacity to bambuzzle him.

Exhibit your feminine side

There is a soft side to every woman- sweet, romantic, loving and caring. It does not mean you are weak when you show off these sides of you to your man.
Every man wants to come home and be welcomed with a smiling, loving and caring woman. Never lose your special feminine roots, show him your sweet and romantic side. But please remember, sex before marriage is a great sin oooooo.

Tell him what you want
Men are human beings. They cannot read minds. Yes, every woman wants her man to treat her right. But, sometimes, you have to say it out. Remember, men and women think differently.

Most men love it when their woman has the confidence to approach them and tell what they want. Men want to please their women, so do not be afraid to open up and let him know what you want.

Little but important things
Many relationships usually start having problems when one or both partners stop caring about those little but important things that add flame to the affair, such as caring for each other, little romantic gestures and wearing what he/she likes and so on.

Remember and do those little things and your partner will automatically keep appreciating you.